The Art of Caring Without Feeling

 

Empathy is often regarded as the highest virtue, a bridge between human hearts. It is what makes us connect, understand and comfort one another. Yet, there are people who find it difficult to relate to other's emotions. Not out of malice or selfishness, but simply because they do not feel the way the world expects them to. For such individuals, life often becomes a quiet struggle of being misunderstood, labeled cold or even heartless.

But what if that is not a flaw? What if it is simply another way of existing? Emotional detachment does not automatically mean uncaring or cruel. A lack of innate empathy does not prevent kindness and respect from being shown toward others. Actions may also be taken, not due to deeply feeling someone else’s emotions, but because what needs to be done is understood. Such actions are driven by reason rather than emotion, a quality just as valuable in a world that often sways between extremes.

Sometimes, you may feel numb when someone shares their problems. You listen, but their feelings do not resonate within you. You do not know what to say or how to react and this helplessness can feel strange. But even in these moments, it is okay. It is okay not to feel what they are feeling, as long as you are not disregarding their experience. Not everyone is wired to offer comfort in the form of emotional connection. Simply being present, even in silence, can sometimes be enough.

The problem arises when society limits the idea of connection to just one form called empathy. It is often seen as the only real way to show care, while other meaningful actions like offering a quiet presence or providing practical support are overlooked. For those who struggle to connect emotionally, showing care might not look like offering comforting words or expressions of sympathy. It might mean quietly offering help, stepping back to give space, or taking action to solve problems. Unfortunately, these acts often go unnoticed because they do not fit the typical mold of emotional connection that empathy represents. Yet, these quieter forms of support is as important and meaningful.

In a world that celebrates emotional connection, it is okay to be different. It is okay to lack the ability to relate deeply, as long as it does not cause harm. It is okay to feel numb and unsure of how to respond to someone’s pain. Not everyone needs to feel another’s suffering to offer support. Sometimes the quietest acts of care, those that do not seek attention or validation, carry the most weight. Perhaps the definition of care needs to expand, to include those who do not connect emotionally but live with honesty and integrity. Remember, it is okay to be this way and you are perfectly enough as you are.

Film Appreciation: The Revenant

 

Alejandro G. Iñárritu’s "The Revenant", released in December 2015 is an experience of survival, revenge and raw human emotion. It draws the audience into the wilderness of the American frontier. Leonardo DiCaprio leads the story as Hugh Glass, a fur trapper left for dead after a brutal bear attack. His performance is one of sheer physicality and vulnerability, capturing the essence of a man clinging to life while carrying the weight of betrayal.  

The plot takes us on Glass’s distressing journey through freezing landscapes as he seeks justice against John Fitzgerald, played by Tom Hardy. Glass’s silent resolve, his struggle to survive in the harsh conditions and his pursuit of revenge create a story that is haunting. DiCaprio's pain and determination becomes the heart of the film, earning him a well deserved Academy Award for Best Actor.  

What makes "The Revenant" so gripping is its ability to make nature a character of its own. Emmanuel Lubezki’s cinematography captures the breathtaking beauty of the wilderness with stunning clarity. Filmed entirely with natural light and each frame feels alive, as if the biting cold could seep through the screen. The sound design, paired with Ryuichi Sakamoto and Alva Noto’s haunting score amplifies the tension, blending the silence of the snow with the chaos of survival.  

The screenplay, co written by Iñárritu and Mark L. Smith embraces minimalism. There is no excess or no unnecessary. Every scene feels purposeful, every silence loaded with meaning. This deliberate pacing allows the story to breathe, making Glass’s struggle feel deeply personal. The scarse dialogue lets the visuals and performances take center stage, creating a film that feels more like a live experience than a scripted narrative.  

This film is not an easy watch, but that is what makes it unforgettable. It pushes the boundaries of what cinema can achieve, both technically and emotionally. It demands patience, empathy and an appreciation for the art that went into its creation. The cast and crew endured the same harsh conditions their characters faced, and this commitment shines through in every moment.  

"The Revenant" is not just about revenge, it is a story of survival. It shows the lengths one man will go to, not just to survive but to find meaning in his suffering. As Glass struggles through the harsh wilderness, we see the cost of his pursuit for justice, how it changes him and takes away parts of his humanity. The film makes us ask ourselves what we are willing to sacrifice for revenge and whether it is truly worth it in the end. 

The Fine Line Between Right and Wrong in the Context of Child Labor

 

Sometimes a simple question can shake the foundations of how we perceive right and wrong. A conversation with a friend recently led me to think about this in a way I had not before. He asked, "If a child ends up in a situation where they have to work, who is right/wrong - the child, the employer or the outsider who comments?" On the surface this might seem like an easy question, but it reveals layers of complexity, not just about child labor but about life itself and the difficult choices people make every day. He also pointed out that, people who tend to comment on such issues are often the ones who have brunches. In other words, the privileged ones, who have the comfort of choice and the security to speak from a distance, without truly understanding the circumstances.

From one angle, each party in this situation can be justified. The child, for example, might not have a choice. Survival comes first. Their family might depend on the wages he/she earn, making education or long term ambition seem like luxuries. In their world working is a necessity. The employer too can be justified saying, they are providing an opportunity. For someone in desperate need, the choice to hire a child might seem like a way to offer a lifeline, something that keeps a family from falling deeper into poverty. The outsider, usually someone with more privilege, looks at the situation with the hope that education could be the way out. They see a future for the child, one that does not require a sacrifice. Each perspective holds some truth, and it is easy to empathize with each.

But then, what if we look at it from a different angle? What if all three are in some way wrong? The child might be criticized for choosing immediate survival over long term growth. By working, they are giving up the potential for a future beyond their current circumstances. On the other hand, the employer’s actions can be criticized too. Even if they feel they are helping, hiring a child is an act of exploitation. It is a violation of their rights and a perpetuation of a system that keeps people stuck in cycles of poverty. And then there is the outsider, who speaks from a position of privilege, advocating for education as the solution. But their words often come from a space disconnected from the harsh realities faced by those who live in poverty.

What strikes me as most fascinating in this situation is the moral tension that all three perspectives create. Each has its own justification, but each also carries its own flaws. The child is surviving, yet giving up future potential. The employer might be “helping", but perpetuating a broken system. The outsider might have the best intentions, but they do not always understand the reality they are trying to change. The complexity of each choice becomes more apparent the deeper we look.

The question of who is right or wrong here is not as straightforward as it seems. The more you try to define it, the more it slips away, like trying to hold water in your hands. The child, the employer and the outsider each have their own reasons, their own stories, but none of them seem completely right or wrong. It is easy to get lost in these conflicting perspectives, wondering if there is ever a clear answer, or if the answer even matters.

In the end, maybe it is not about deciding who to support or oppose. Maybe the real question is about how we navigate a world that constantly forces us to choose between survival and ambition, between helping and exploiting, between good intentions and lived realities. It leaves you wondering if in trying to define right and wrong, are we missing the point altogether?

Motoverse: A Celebration of Royal Enfield and the Spirit of Riding

 

If you are a motorcycle enthusiast, particularly a Royal Enfield rider, the word "Motoverse" might resonate. Formerly known as Rider Mania, this event has evolved into one of the most anticipated annual gatherings for motorcycling enthusiasts across the globe. Held Every year during the month of November, spanning Friday, Saturday and Sunday, Set against the vibrant backdrop of Goa, Motoverse is more than just an event, it is a celebration of the riding culture and the community it builds.

What is Motoverse?

Motoverse is Royal Enfield's flagship festival, designed to unite riders from all the parts of the world. It is where the passion for motorcycles intersects with music, adventure, art and camaraderie. Over a few days, Goa transforms into a buzzing hub for bikers, hosting thousands of Royal Enfield enthusiasts who ride down from various corners of the country to be part of this experience.

Registration Process and Tickets

If you are planning to be part of this incredible event, the registration process for Motoverse is simple. Early bird tickets are available at a discounted price of ₹2500. These tickets come with exclusive goodies like a Motoverse T shirt, stickers and other surprises to enhance your experience. As the event draws closer, ticket prices rise to ₹3500. Tickets can be purchased through the Royal Enfield website or at designated outlets at the event.

What Happens at Motoverse? 

Imagine an arena where motorcycles roar in harmony with live music, where the air is thick with the aroma of street food and where you are surrounded by people who share your love for two wheels. These are some of the the highlights Motoverse offers,

Bike Displays, Launches, and Custom Bikes:

Motoverse is also a haven for bike enthusiasts looking to experience the latest in motorcycling trends. Attendees can witness the unveiling of new Royal Enfield models and marvel at beautifully customized bikes crafted by designers. The event showcases unique builds that celebrate creativity and engineering, offering inspiration for both seasoned riders and budding custom builders.

Riding Challenges: From dirt track races to slow races and hill climbs, the event is packed with adrenaline rushed competitions. Riders can test their skills in a variety of challenges designed to push their limits while having fun.  

Workshops and DIY Zones: Whether you are looking to learn the basics of motorcycle maintenance or get hands on with customization, Motoverse has it all. Experts lead workshops that can turn you into a better, more knowledgeable rider. 

Music and Art: The event brings together live performances by local and international artists, while the vibrant art scene shines through custom bike displays, graffiti and murals, offering attendees a complete cultural experience.  

Community and Camaraderie: What makes Motoverse truly special is its focus on community. It is a place where like minded riders can share stories, forge new friendships and celebrate their passion for motorcycles in a welcoming, inclusive environment.  

Food and Stalls for Gear: No event is complete without good food and shopping and Motoverse delivers on both. The food stalls offer a wide variety, from local Goan treats to international street food, ensuring attendees are well fed while enjoying the festivities. The gear stalls are a major highlight for motorcycle enthusiasts, offering everything from protective riding gear to stylish Royal Enfield merchandise, to accesories. Whether you are looking for a new helmet, jacket, or custom accessories, there is something for every rider to check out and take home.

Why Should One Attend?

If you are new to the world of Royal Enfield or just starting your motorcycle journey, Motoverse is the perfect introduction. The event is designed not only for experienced riders but also for beginners, with a wide range of activities and learning opportunities to suit everyone.  

For an experienced rider, it is a chance to push your limits and compete with the best. For a beginner, it is a space to learn, meet people who share your passion and gain inspiration for your own riding journey.

The Goa Vibe 

Set against the landscape of Goa, with its sandy beaches, lively streets and relaxed atmosphere, Motoverse captures the essence of riding in one of the most beautiful places in India. The slow vibe of Goa complements the high energy activities at Motoverse, making it a unique fusion of relaxation and adventure.  

A Celebration of Royal Enfield's Legacy

Motoverse is not just a celebration of riding, it is a tribute to Royal Enfield’s legacy in the world of motorcycles. The event brings together a diverse group of riders who all share a common bond: a love for the Royal Enfield brand. From the iconic Bullet to the modern Him-E, the event showcases the diversity of bikes and the rich history that Royal Enfield represents.  

Conclusion

Whether you are an experienced rider or a curious beginner, Motoverse offers a chance to experience the spirit of motorcycling like never before. It is a festival that goes beyond bikes, celebrating the lifestyle, community and passion that come with every ride. So, if you have not yet, saddle up next time and head to Goa to experience Motoverse, the ultimate gathering for anyone who has ever felt the thrill of the road.

The Quiet Violence of Pride

 

From a young age we are taught that pride is a virtue. We hear it everywhere, be proud of who you are, where you come from or what you belong to. It is often seen as a sign of strength, self respect and confidence. Be proud of your nation, your language, your school, your religion, your family- the list goes on. But beneath this positive message lies an unspoken reality.

At its core pride often goes beyond appreciation. It is not just about valuing what you have but about elevating it above everything else. Think about it this way, When you say you are proud to be Indian, it may start as a simple love for country but it can easily turn into seeing other countries as lesser. If you are proud to be South Indian, it can lead to looking down on people from the North. If you are proud to be Tamilian, you may find yourself feeling superior to speakers of other languages. 

The same mentality seeps into other areas of life as well. If you are proud of your school or college, you may unconsciously see other educational institutions as inferior. If you are a first ranker, you may look down on the second ranker. Pride in one’s profession can also lead to thinking lower of those who choose different professions. If you are a proud man, you might feel women are inferior. This is not limited to major aspects of life but even in small things, such as feeling superior for having a better car, better clothes or better anything.

What starts as a simple feeling of pride quickly changes into the creation of barriers that separate “us” from “them". Pride is often rooted in comparison. When it shifts towards feeling superior to others, it subtly creates divisions that reinforces forms of discrimination that goes unnoticed. People may claim to be progressive and fight for equality but in personal lives pride often shapes judgments and biases, sometimes without even them realizing it.

Any form of pride ultimately creates discrimination. Even pride in being human can make us overlook the value of other living beings, causing us to view ourselves superior to animals and other forms of life. It is not always obvious or aggressive but sometimes it is a quiet invisible form of bias that shapes how we view others. We convince ourselves that our pride is harmless maybe even righteous. But in reality it creates a mindset where others are seen as lesser. 

So the next time when you are encouraged to be proud, Ask yourself whether that pride is truly about appreciating what you have or if it is becoming a way to look down on others. Because in the end any form of pride is wrong. It draws lines where there should be none.

Re released Cinema: Exploiting Nostalgia to Cash in on Audiences

 

It is almost amusing to see how old films are being thrown back into theatres these days, marketed as 're releases' and 'nostalgic experiences'. Producers and Theatre owners capitalizing on this sudden wave of nostalgia to squeeze every last rupee from the audience.  Let us not pretend that it is some kind of heartfelt tribute to fans but this is purely business. These films which have already completed their theatrical run and made their profits are now being dragged back, not because they deserve another round but simply to squeeze money from fans.

The baffling part is that these re released films which anyone can watch online for free are still drawing crowds to theatres, with fans paying for something already at their fingertips. Many of these films have not aged well, yet the nostalgia factor is used to mask their flaws creating an illusion that keeps the audience coming back. There is nothing new being offered and instead of demanding fresh content, we have fallen into a cycle where we reward mediocrity simply because it is termed nostalgia. All this does is inflate producer's bank accounts while pushing original films aside.

It is not just the audience being exploited, It is also the new smaller films that struggle to get screen time. While the big re released films dominate, fresh original content finds itself buried. Small films that may actually deserve the attention are pushed aside to make room for something that is already been done. Instead of fresh experiences we are stuck replaying the past.

The real question is: Are we that desperate for a trip down memory lane or are we just too lazy to demand better? At what point do we stop playing into the hands of profit hungry producers and theatre owners who do not care about cinema, but only about filling their pockets? If the audience can not even see how they are being robbed, maybe it is time to take a step back and reconsider what we are truly celebrating when we pay to watch what is already sitting on our living room screens.

Film Appreciation: The Usual Suspects

 

Released in 1995, "The Usual Suspects" directed by Bryan Singer remains one of the most iconic crime thrillers in Hollywood. With a talented cast that includes Kevin Spacey, Gabriel Byrne, Benicio Del Toro, Kevin Pollak and Stephen Baldwin, the film quickly earned a cult status for its complex storytelling and the twists. Written by Christopher McQuarrie, this film is a masterclass in suspense and mystery.

Kevin Spacey’s performance as Verbal Kint is nothing short of exceptional. His character’s nervous behavior and innocence pull viewers in, making him both likable and intriguing. Gabriel Byrne plays Dean Keaton, an ex criminal trying to escape his past adds depth and complexity to the character. Del Toro’s quirky portrayal combined with Pollak and Baldwin’s sharp performances adds layers to the story, making every scene engaging.

The story begins with five criminals meeting during a police lineup and getting pulled into the plans of a mastermind named Keyser Söze. The film unfolds through a series of flashbacks leading to a heist that spirals out of control. Yet this is not just a typical crime thriller. It is a puzzle where every piece fits together in unexpected ways leading to one of the most unforgettable climaxes in cinema. The narrative plays with the concept of unreliable storytelling, making the audience question what is real and what is fabricated.

John Ottman’s musical score heightens the suspense that complements the film’s tone. The tension in the soundtrack paired with Newton Thomas Sigel’s excellent cinematography brings an atmospheric intensity to the film. The clever use of shadows and lighting highlights the character's unclear morals and adds to the mystery of the story.

This is a film that rewards patience. It takes its time building characters and setting up its complex plot. It is not just the twist ending that leaves an impact but the journey leading up to it, filled with subtle hints and clever misdirections that only reveal upon a second viewing. For those who appreciate complex storytelling and clever plot twists "The Usual Suspects" is a must watch. This is for viewers who enjoy being kept on the edge of their seats questioning every detail and appreciating the craft of a mystery.

Film Appreciation: Rocky

 

"Rocky" Released in 2021, is the directorial debut of Arun Matheswaran who brings a distinct and audacious vision to Tamil cinema. Starring Vasanth Ravi, Bharathiraja and Rohini, the film carves a brutal yet poetic narrative that stands apart from mainstream storytelling. Arun's style is bold that embraces the rawness of human emotions and the disheartening reality of revenge.

The story follows Rocky, a man who is released from prison after spending years behind bars. He sets out on a path of revenge against the people who destroyed his family. The film explores the weight of his past and the haunting memories that drive him. Yet, "Rocky" is not just a tale of bloodshed, it also delves into the consequences of violence and the toll it takes on one's soul, making his journey more introspective than action packed.

Vasanth Ravi delivers a stellar performance as Rocky, embodying the silent rage and deep seated trauma of a man driven by vengeance. His performance is intense with a quiet but powerful presence that communicates more than words ever could. Bharathiraja’s seasoned portrayal as a morally grey elder offers a subtle contrast, adding layers to the narrative. Rohini’s brief but heartfelt scenes bring a touch of tenderness to the film, grounding it emotionally.

Darbuka Siva’s music and Shreyaas Krishna’s cinematography elevate this film to an atmospheric experience. The soundtrack is haunting and often blends seamlessly with the visuals to create a meditative mood. The moody frames with their heavy use of shadows and silhouettes, accentuate the film’s raw tone, making every scene feel like a carefully crafted painting.

As a film, "Rocky" is not for the faint hearted. The film pushes viewers with its slow pace, intense visuals and thought provoking storytelling. Arun Matheswaran does not avoid uncomfortable moments, instead encouraging viewers to face the harsh consequences of seeking revenge. This artistic boldness might alienate some but it rewards those willing to immerse themselves in its world.

For those who appreciate slow burn narratives and are unafraid of exploring the darker corners of the human psyche, "Rocky" is a rare gem. It is an experience that makes you question the true price of redemption.

Film Appreciation: Whiplash

 

"Whiplash" released in 2014, directed by Damien Chazelle is a gripping film on the pursuit of excellence. Starring Miles Teller as Andrew Neiman, as a young jazz drummer and J.K. Simmons, in an Oscar winning performance as the tyrannical music instructor Fletcher. This film grabs your attention from the start and keeps you on the edge of your seat throughout.

The cinematography in film is exceptional, with tight close ups and dark spaces that amplify the intense pressure Andrew faces. The camera often stays on his face or hands, creating a claustrophobic atmosphere that mirrors his mental and physical state. The visual style is as oppressive as the expectations placed on him drawing you into his world of obsession. The contrast of light and shadow also emphasizes the emotional extremes that the characters experience.

Damien Chazelle’s direction keeps the film constantly on the edge. He knows how to control pacing, shifting between moments of intense action and quieter, more reflective scenes that give the audience a moment to breathe. Chazelle expertly builds tension with every scene that shows you the complicated dynamic between Andrew and Fletcher. He masterfully blurs the line between what motivates someone to greatness and what might break them.

The performances in this film are electrifying. Miles Teller brings a raw energy to his role as Andrew, portraying the young drummer’s determination and obsession with intensity. His physicality in the drumming scenes makes you feel his exhaustion and his drive to push beyond his limits. J.K. Simmons however steals the spotlight as Fletcher. His commanding presence and terrifying intensity make him a force of nature on screen. His performance is both powerful and chilling and the chemistry between him and Teller is the emotional backbone of the film. Their relationship is complex, shifting between mentor and tormentor and it fuels the emotional intensity of the film.

The music is the heart of "Whiplash", driving the narrative forward. The fast paced jazz sequences are more than just background noise, they are an emotional experience. The rhythm of the drums matches Andrew’s heartbeats and every crash feels like a step closer to either victory or collapse. The music is neatly used to show Andrew’s frustrations, his growing desperation and his eventual breakthrough. The drum solos makes the viewer feel every ounce of Andrew’s struggle to succeed.

By the time the film reaches its explosive finale, you are left breathless, caught between the thrill of Andrew’s excellence and the overwhelming realization of the sacrifices he has made. "Whiplash" does not just ask if greatness is worth pursuing, it shows you the intense emotional and physical cost of reaching the top. Making it a powerful and unforgettable experience.